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Am I Saying It Right? 9 Ways To Recognise Your Mistakes As An Independent English Learner

Published on
June 17, 2021
Updated on
November 15, 2022
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Written by
Ramsay Lewis

Saying the wrong word can be really embarrassing, but it’s part of the process. Use these tips and tricks to notice your mistakes and make them less often.

Am I Saying It Right? 9 Ways To Recognise Your Mistakes As An Independent English Learner
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Language mistakes can be embarrassing. 

I remember when I first moved to Brazil and was still new to Portuguese. One of the first words I learned was pão which means “bread”. 

In Portuguese, the “ão” makes a nasal sound that we don’t use a lot in English. The closest we get might be the “ng” sound in “angry”. I could make the sound, but because I wasn’t used to it, I would often forget to make it when I was speaking normally. 

I used to just drop that part of the word.

Unfortunately, without the nasal sound, pão sounds exactly like pau, which is a slang term for male genitalia. I realised several weeks into my time in Brazil that every time I had gone to a bakery for bread, I had mistakenly asked the poor attendant if I could have a penis.

Needless to say, I was mortified and I worked very hard to develop a habit of making the nasal sound. 

Not all language errors are as embarrassing as that one. But still, most of us just generally want to make sure that we don’t sound stupid when we’re speaking. 

Recognising our own mistakes is one of the hardest things about independent language learning. It’s also one of the main reasons that people hire a teacher or go to English class: they want real-time feedback on their mistakes. 

In this article, I want to try to give you some advice for how you can get better at noticing your own mistakes when you’re speaking or writing and then get better at fixing them yourself. 

Re-thinking English “mistakes”

First, though, I want to clarify how I think about language mistakes.

Mistakes are essential for learning

My own particular view, which I have expressed several times on this blog, is that mistakes are essential for learning. Without mistakes, I actually think it’s not possible to really improve. 

So while I certainly advocate thinking about your errors and using them as a basis for learning, I don’t advocate that you try to avoid all mistakes.

I encourage you to embrace them. See them as part of the process. Even when they’re embarrassing.

The biggest mistakes in language learning aren’t language mistakes

There are some mistakes that you should work hard to avoid, but these are about how you learn. 

We’ve detailed these most common mistakes people make when learning English elsewhere, but here’s the quick list:

  • Not having a plan for learning English
  • Avoiding conversations in English
  • Choosing boring activities
  • Relying too much on a teacher
  • Not making enough time for your learning

These are the worst mistakes you can make as an English learner. Notice that making grammar mistakes and poor pronunciation are not on the list. 

Teachers aren’t perfect error correctors

I also want to point out that having a teacher or language partner is not a sure-fire way to learn what errors you make. 

Some teachers miss mistakes. 

Some teachers point out so many mistakes that it stops you from being able to actually speak. 

Some teachers say something is a mistake when it’s actually not—it’s just different from how they would speak. 

I remember listening to one English podcast in which a man from the United States was speaking in English with a Brazilian woman. 

There was a moment where he corrected her pronunciation on something that I thought was exactly right. He corrected her about 5 times before giving up. Neither she nor I could hear how what she was saying was different from what he was saying. 

Teachers aren’t perfect, even if they’re native speakers. Take their advice with a pinch of salt

Don’t be too concerned with language errors

All that is to say, try not to be overly focused on your errors. 

As an English teacher, I often see students obsess about what the “right” way to say something is or needing their grammar to be perfect. Sometimes being too focused on being “right” can hold people back from learning. 

Of course, as I made clear in the introduction, I also know what it’s like to feel embarrassed because of your mistakes. 

So strike a balance

Yes, aim to improve and to, eventually, speak without errors. But don’t be obsessed with errors, either. And certainly, don’t let the fear of making mistakes keep you from writing or speaking. 

With that, here’s my advice for recognising your English mistakes.

Seeing mistakes in your writing

It’s probably easiest to see mistakes in your writing. Here are some tips and tricks to help you do that.

1. Read your work out loud

This is one trick that I use in my own writing. Reading what you wrote out loud helps you find places where your language sounds funny or awkward. 

If it sounds awkward, there’s probably a mistake in there—or at least an opportunity for improvement.

2. Use a grammar checker

This is another trick that I use myself—I always put my work through a grammar checker.

My favourite is Grammarly, but there are others. It’s not perfect, but it definitely helps me find the little typos and mistakes that I might have missed. 

For example, it helped me catch the following error that I had in an earlier draft of this article:

Another useful app is called Hemingway. It focuses more on style. It helps give suggestions about parts of your writing that might be too complex or where you could simplify your language. 

Neither of these tools is perfect, but they may help you recognise some of your errors.

Related: The Best Free Tools To Improve Your Writing In English

3. Find a feedback community

One of the best ways to improve your writing is to get feedback from others.

Other language learners are a good place to start if you’re looking for feedback. I bet the friendly people in the Leonardo English community would be happy to take a look at your writing to help you identify mistakes. 

Other possible communities for writing feedback include:

4. Online writing feedback platforms

There are now some services that try to help English learners write better.

One is Write and Improve. It’s free, and it gives you prompts and short exercises where you can practise writing. It not only helps you see your mistakes, but it also gives you a score. It could be especially helpful for you if you are studying for an English exam like the IELTS. 

Again, though, remember that it’s not perfect. 

I tried it out and wrote a couple of paragraphs responding to a prompt. I was assigned a score of 4 out of 5 and an English level of A2. Yikes! (Don’t tell my university—they’ll take away my degree.)

I recommend not being too concerned about your writing being “perfect” or worrying about the score you get. Just use it for suggestions for improvement. 

Related: How To Improve Your Writing in English—George Orwell's Six Rules

5. Google something if you’re not sure

If there's a particular sentence construction you aren't sure about, Google it in inverted commas. 

For example, if you can’t remember whether it is “he caught” or “he catched”, type the word in inverted commas “he catched”, and see what the results are.

If there are no results, it's probably incorrect. 

See the other suggested answers to find some ideas for what you could say instead. 

Related: Google Translate Superpowers for English Learning: 9 Ways to Use This Powerful Translation Tool

Recognising mistakes in your speaking

It’s a bit harder to notice the mistakes you make when you’re speaking, but you can do it with practice. Here are some suggestions for getting better at that. 

6. Don’t speak too quickly

We tend to make more mistakes when we talk fast. 

When we’re in a real conversation, we usually focus on speaking fluently. We try to speak without long pauses or too many stops and starts. 

But when we want to speak accurately, we need to slow down. Take your time when you’re speaking to notice your mistakes before you make them. 

7. Record yourself

Recording yourself speaking is one of the best speaking activities you can do. Not only is it an effective way to measure your progress in English, but it also makes it easy to hear the mistakes you make when you talk. 

This is a good one for spotting grammar mistakes. 

You can also use it to compare your pronunciation to that of a native speaker. 

For example, you could record yourself reading the transcript for one of the English Learning for Curious Minds podcast episodes. Then you could listen to the host, Alastair, and compare your recording to him. 

You’ll be able to hear where his pronunciation is different from yours. 

Related: How to Improve Your English Speaking (When You Don't Have Anyone to Practise With)

8. Use a pronunciation app

Some online platforms, like Google Translate, give you the pronunciation of words. 

Others will even listen to you and tell you when your pronunciation is good and when it’s not. 

Speech Ace is one of those. It gives you a word or a sentence. Then it will judge how close your pronunciation is to their database. 

Again, be cautious about reading too much into the results. I tried this and for several words, it gave me only 90%. (Rude.)
Apparently, I don’t properly say the last “r” sound in “concierge”. 

Don’t use it to try to achieve “perfect” pronunciation (there’s no such thing). But it could be helpful for getting close to a British or American accent

9. Hire an English teacher

Online tools will almost always be imperfect. At the moment there are few substitutes for a sympathetic native speaker. 

I’ve also said that English teachers themselves aren’t perfect. But they can be useful to help you notice your speaking errors. They’re one option.

You can easily find an English teacher or tutor on platforms like:

An English conversation partner can also provide lots of the same benefits, although they may not be able to teach you grammar as well as a trained English teacher can.  

If you are thinking of finding an English teacher online, we've written some extensive guides on the major websites:

Finding an English Teacher Online with italki: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Finding an English Teacher Online with Preply: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

Related: When (And Why) To Take English Lessons

You can fix your errors on your own

Language schools will tell you that you need to be in a school or have a teacher to progress in English. There’s this idea that you need to have an English expert to guide you.

You don’t need a teacher. You can be your own guide as you explore the wonderful world of English. 

Sure, occasionally using a teacher may be helpful. I definitely recommend finding a conversation partner. 

But remember that you can make excellent progress as an independent learner.

I’m still not perfect in Portuguese, but I’ve improved a tonne over time. 

These days, I’m taking a university course in data science entirely in Portuguese and can follow along. I’ve managed to create deep friendships entirely in that language. And I almost never embarrass myself when I ask for bread. 

We get better, slowly, with lots of practice. And as we do, we make fewer mistakes. 

There are no shortcuts

Just keep immersing yourself in English. Follow this advice. You’ll start to notice your mistakes, and this is an important step on the journey towards fluency in English.

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